One of the great conundrums that comes along with loss is defining the word, "heal."  It can be either an adjective, describing an experience; a verb, an action taken to remedy pain; or a noun, signifying a gift of healing.  As an experienced medium, I can tell you...

The very best communication a person can have with a loved one in Spirit is the one that happens on it's own, without the help of a medium. I simply validate the connected presence of a loved one, but I don't make it happen. Because a Soul who is no longer present in a body can't simply show up and talk to you, we have to...

Without a doubt, one of the most difficult challenges we will ever face is coping as someone we love experiences their final moments here on the physical Earth. When a Soul is communicating during a reading, they never seem too concerned about how they passed. They will often acknowledge it, as a means to correctly validate their identity, but they don't emotionally cling to the experience. This includes those who pass in horrific...

At the group event in Sheboygan, Wis. last weekend, two incredible connections left me in awe of how much the Spirit world conspires in our favor. Back in the day, farmers would host a "barn raising" where a community of people would join efforts to get a large project done. The Spirit world operates in much the same way. I am often asked, "Are people together in Spirit?" The answer is not just yes, but YES! YES! And YES! 

Years ago, a woman who had scheduled a private session kept telling me how mad she was at her deceased husband. I assumed the worst: he must have died in his lover's arms at casino hotel where he had squandered the entire family fortune just moments before his demise. 

I was so nervous by the time of her appointment, all I could do was pray he'd offer some apology to her to try and make it right. As it turned out...

A common trait in people who are thriving after a loss is their practice of compassionate service. When you have traveled down the lonely road of grief, your experience becomes the training you need to serve as a guide for others on that new journey. 

This week I had a private sitting with two sweet, energetic sisters. They had been to a group session, and felt their mom might have been trying to validate them through a reading given to the people sitting nearby, so they were open to, and eager for, the information. As I connected with their mom, she communicated to me...